::Breaths of Fresh Air::

Im Just Not That Into You

“It is better to lose your pride with someone you love rather than to lose that someone you love with your useless pride.”

What absolutely perplexes me at times is a man and his behavior. Does being a male slut or using foul language make you more badass? The answer is no. I love the modest man, I absolutely adore him. I guess I love the modest man because my father and my brother are some of the most modest men you can find. Unfortunately, my dad is taken by my mother and my brother just isn't relationship focused. These men don't brag, they speak the truth, they respect the women in their life, and their not materialistic by any means. I am sickened when I eavesdrop on men talking trash on women, bragging about how many girls they have been with or how much more they can drink. It just screams how uneducated you are. Maybe chivalry isn't dead, but we could sure use more chivalrous men out there.  Where art thou Romeo?

Colors

Diversity. Defined as different or various. I love it. It gives me a huge smile on my face and warms my heart when I see a couple in public of two different races, or when you see someone speaking another language (different of their own) or just an array of bright colors together, like a sunset, it illuminates my soul. I love the acceptance it brings. It gives me a sense of accomplishment in society, because in the past it wasn't nearly accepted to mix colors in anything. I think when children are exposed to two different cultures, it is beautiful. Although it can bring some controversy to tweek with tradition, what is wrong with having two traditions? Or at least trying it out and compare and contrast which you like better? The Easter bunny? Hannukah? Santa Claus? Los Reyes? El dia de los Muertos? Chinese New Year? Yom Kippur? Oktoberfest? Mardi Gras? Personally, I was raised with very little tradition in regards to holidays, religion, etc (not my parents fault, just the American way), in comparison to my boyfriend and his family. And personally, I love their traditions a lot more.

For example, one new tradition I absolutely loved and hope to continue through the years was on New Years Eve, we went to church before midnight and we sat there in complete silence on our knees for however long we needed praying, forgiving, confessing, and reflecting.

Why be scared to learn something new? What harm can it do you? Some of the most thrilling and unforgettable moments of my life have been where I have immersed myself to do something new and exciting and think out of the box. I challenge you to emerge yourself and not be closed minded, only then can you share an opinion and educate others.

CORAZON NEGRO

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Amarte Duele...

No words this week, just music...

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::Happiness is Your Best Medicine::

What is it that makes the New Year the time to make resolutions and better ourselves? Were we really that bad the year before? As I have made the resolution to physically challenge my body to its greatest, I have decided I need to focus on the internal also. I am seeking to pursue happiness in all its wonderous forms. In a more serious way though. Just think about the times that you felt truly happy. Where were you? Who were you with? What were you doing? How did you feel afterwards?  I am happiest when I am on the beach usually in the waves or watching a sunset, accomplish something challenging, being in love, giving and receiving great advice or after leaving the gym. Life is too short and we owe it to ourselves to seek pure happiness on a daily basis. Taking out the bad, maintaining a healthy blood pressure and remedying our pasts mistakes. We can all contribute to universal happiness if we try. 

A Voice Within

Southern California has been experiencing some crazy cold weather, but thank God the rain has stopped for now because that was becoming a little crazy. I will repeat myself when I mention that I absolutely hate the cold weather. It makes me lazy and I despise laziness and the people that come with it. I love to be outside, by the beach, taking a walk, playing in the park, and most of all SWEAT. I love to sweat. Sweating means your producing energy and not inside playing video games or watching countless episodes of Jersey Shore or Real Housewives (which I am guilty of when its rainy out) but most the time I love being outdoors. Even if it is alone and I am learning a lot about being alone these days. Although I tend to avoid it by hanging out with my boyfriend or friends as much as possible, but sometimes it is rewarding to be alone. Going to the grocery store, going to the gym, yoga class, eating dinner, going to bed and waking up to the sound of your own voice and your own thoughts. If you cant support yourself alone, are you capable of supporting someone else?